The Patriarch by David Nasaw
The Kennedy family is undoubtedly one of the most famous, if
not the most famous, family of 20th Century America. Most who
even follow the family at a distance know that their story is a harsh one. Even
the most skeptical people around are tempted to believe in something such as a “family
curse” when hearing their family story.
This is a very well written, and heavily detailed book on the father, or
“patriarch” of the family, Joseph P. Kennedy.
This book was a bit long. Reading on a Kindle, one can’t
immediately look at the book and feel intimidated. Had I looked at an actual
hardback version of this biography, I might have passed. It probably looked awfully large. We must remember, though, that Joseph Kennedy
had an incredibly rich, full life, and such a large compendium is rightly
justified. Although I was definitely
worn down by the end of the book, I didn’t feel that the writing was long winded
nor too detailed.
Although the book (like most biographies) is told in a
linear narrative, I felt at many times I was reading multiple biographies. There’s Kennedy the astute successful businessmen,
Kennedy the Hollywood producer, Kennedy the ambassador to England, and Kennedy,
the father to the famous JFK. Through
all of these episodes, we’re constantly also kept in the loop with wife Rose
and his nine children. There’s just
enough ‘family’ here to keep the reader familiar with all of their comings and
goings, but the majority of the focus is on Kennedy’s many different endeavors
throughout his lifetime.
I found it interesting that, whereas the book painted the
man with a rather favorable brush, I came away with the impression that I really
didn’t like the man. Although he worked
very hard for his money and rightfully earned his accomplishments, I was left
with the impression that he waved his wealth in the face of all of his
associates, and those that didn’t step in line with his ambitions or goals were
quickly ostracized and demonized by him. I suppose tons of money can do that to
one’s character; especially in the times when Kennedy lived.
My favorite part of the book was Kennedy’s tenure as
Ambassador to England in the 1930s leading up to World War II. This section of the book could have easily
commanded its OWN book. I’ve read many
history books on World War II, and the events leading up to it, but it was fascinating
to read about it through Joseph Kennedy’s eyes.
It was also probably the key reason why I ended up not liking the
man. Like many Americans, Kennedy was an
isolationist prior the Pearl Harbor bombing, but unlike most, he remained an isolationist
throughout the entire war, convinced it was a giant mistake. We read time and time again how Kennedy
simply didn’t think England had a fool’s chance to win, and like Neville
Chamberlain, he went through hell and high-water to appease Hitler to keep the
war from expanding; even without the US being involved. When one reads between the lines, one gets
the impression that Kennedy was more interested in protecting his wealth than
he was stopping a maniacal dictator from trying to take over the world.
Of course, one must not treat the man too harshly when his
oldest son, Joe Jr. was killed during the same war that Kennedy vociferously
opposed while on a secret bombing mission.
Most know that Joe Jr’s death would be the first of four of Kennedy’s
children tragically killed, in addition to another child reduced to a vegetative
state after a failed lobotomy. So as
rich and powerful as he was, he definitely didn’t have an easy go of things.
Still, it seemed as though Kennedy comes across as a rich
arrogant aristocrat who simply jumps up and down and pouts when others don’t
see things his way. During his tenure as
Ambassador to England, we read multiple instances of clashes between Kennedy
and President Franklin Roosevelt.
Powerful men create uncontrollably powerful egos.
Kennedy does come across as a caring head-of-the family,
always making time for each of his nine children, but at the same time seems to
want to spend more time making gobs of money than having family
excursions. Throughout most of the book,
we read that wife Rose goes on multiple cross-continent vacations either by herself,
or with some of the brood; but never with her husband. Kennedy seems to want to be more of a ‘responsible
father’ as opposed to a ‘loving dad’.
When such pressures are put on one by their parents, you can’t help but
wonder if things were more disjointed behind the scenes than what is revealed
here. Sadly, Kennedy is quite the
womanizer and seems to spend much more time away from wife Rose that he does with
her. Rose seems resigned to her destiny,
and we rarely hear her complain. I guess
this was the norm for the rich and powerful back then. Maybe it still is, I don’t
know. It seems like many people today
still can’t differentiate ‘success’ from ‘happiness’.
When second (now eldest) son Jack enters politics, Kennedy makes
his son’s political future another one of his personal ambitions. It’s no
secret that Jack is very successful in all of his efforts; all the way up to
being President of the U.S.A. Although
this book barely mentions the shady speculative innuendos that are largely
hinted at elsewhere, you definitely come away with the impression that Kennedy’s
money and influence is the main factor that escalates Jack into the White House
at such a young age. Even when his son
becomes President, Dad can’t help but pout.
Apparently he was disgusted that his son won the election by such a narrow
margin, and again rants and raves at all of those that he feels were
responsible.
I wasn’t sure what to expect when I began reading this. Due to many unscrupulous rumors around the
double life of Joseph Kennedy, I wouldn’t have been surprised had this thing
been a full-scale slinger of mud. In
hindsight, I’m glad it wasn’t. The author seems biased to the good side of his
character, yet after finishing the book, I came away with the impression that I
admired Joseph Kennedy’s accomplishments, but can’t really say I admire him as
a person or a husband.